been a long time but I recall this book in particular was excellent If I'd read this book a year ago, I'd have given it 5 stars for its takenoprisoners approach to condemning abusive parenting practices.
Miller shines a merciless spotlight on what's 'wrong' with many of the fundamental assumptions that many parents make when it comes to dealing with their children, and clearly shows how much deep, lasting damage can be done in the name of 'teaching lessons' and 'discipline'.
Miller's motto is: the child is always right!
In the past, I would have agreed 100%.
Now, I have a slightly different view: the child is always good!
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It helped me begin to face the depth of my childhood pain.
It was such a refreshing experience, to know that I wasn't being paranoid when I thought from time to that that society would do anything to refrain from blaming the parent.
I'm not shy about my abusive parents in any way, I always try to voice my feelings and experiences so that people know that they are not alone, like I used to think.
But always, always there are people who say "You should be ashamed of yourself! Your parents gave you life! They fed you and you dare to blame them?! Shame!" I always thought that it was something about Turkish culture but Miller says it's a worldwide habit.
It made my eyes water, when she explained how people refrain from blaming the actual responsible one.
When you kill someone, you are a murderer.
When you steal, you are thief.
But when you abuse and traumatise your own children, y Alice Miller's thinking is hard to find all in one book, but this is a good starting place.
read as many as you need to to learn how the attitude toward and treatment of children effects the individual and entire societies.
á Das verbannte Wissen ↠´ This was so amazing that I had to reread several chapters and went back for more.
so incrediblely important.
Please read this.
you owe yourself and your children the knowledge presented between the covers of what Alice Miller has to say.
I'm moved beyond words and can't digest all of it.
going back for more.
Let the ramifications of this banished knowledge sink into my phychie and absorb the consequences of denial that has put our children in danger.
I must study this deeper! Think I need to reread this one.
I remember thinking it was important and thoughtprovoking.
In her previous (excellent) book, THE DRAMA OF THE GIFTED CHILD, Alice Miller still wrote from a psychoanalytic frame of reference.
Now she has abandoned that model of therapy, believing that it only further instills in the client a repression of feeling memory.
Everyone who thinks that s/he might be a parent should read this.
Just wait until you read her observation about Santa Claus! What a revelation!
From BANISHED KNOWLEDGE.
"Every child depends on others for the satisfaction of his needs because he cannot look after himself.
The only possible recourse a baby has when his screams are ignored is to repress his distress, which is tantamount to mutilating his soul, for the result is an interference with his ability to feel, to be a I recognize that there has been a backlash against Alice Miller’s way of thinking, that there is the sense that she has overstated her case against the cruelties parents ignorantly inflict on their children.
In the 1980s, when I first discovered her works (For Your Own Good and Thou Shalt Not Be Aware), I became a father and was given much to chew on.
There’s in Miller a very strong, earnest message, a way of seeing childrearing that is much at odds with the general way we in the West have practiced it for millennia.
Her message is no less earthshaking than Freud’s, when he insisted that children carried within them powerful sexual desires that very often led people into neurotic behavior as adul